Help me, please...

[toadette101]

My Dad's with another woman, and I'm visiting him at the moment. They keep on handholding and kissing and it's getting really on my nerves. They do all these romantic things together... But he's still married to my Mum! They don't even take the pictures of them together off the wall when I come over. She calls him 'Honey' and 'Darling' and stuff. It's making me really depressed...

Please help me, people. I don't want to hurt their feelings by telling them not to hug or kiss or etc. But I'm confused as what to do to hint that I hate it when they do that.

Help me, please...

[Deleted]

i knwo how you feel sort of. i didn't like my mum's bf even before he did something to prove he was scum and yet my mum stayed wiht him and id stuff like that. Sure she weren't still married to my dad, but i still didn't like it. It's hard when parents do thing syou don't like. iff you say something htye will go it's my choice repsect your elders or something, but you've got to let them know how you feel.

[toadette101]

I feel nervous about saying how I REALLY feel about all the romance to my Dad. he could at least try to hide some of it. He KNOWS how I feel about the situation, and does no effort to hide anything. Oh, and the woman's kids call him 'Dad'... He's MY Dad, not theirs. They should just call him Jeremy, instead of Dad.

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if your dad loves you very much (i'm sure he does) then talk to him privately about it. he will understand.

[Deleted]

I agree with Icemaster. And ask God what to say and what to do because he has full control of the situation. I'll be praying for you.

[toadette101]

Thanks, guys. I'll try and tear them apart for a few minutes and tell Dad. Thing is... I'm not sure that Dad WILL stop just because I said so...

[Haunter 360]

That's horrible Toadette!
Don't worry sis, I'm here for ya.
Talk to me when you went, okay?

[Deleted]

It's a hard thing to tear away from evil desires. Remember, it is his descision, but pray that he will make the right one.

[toadette101]

Thanks Haunter and Pyro.
Dad does have a habit of making the wrong choices, though...

I'll tell him! I hope he does do something about it. He didn't last time...

UPDATE

I've told him I don't like it! He says he'll try. Just a few minutes ago, I saw Frances put her head on Dad's shoulders in a romantic gesture. I storm out of the room. Dad thinks I'm upset about something else, so I tell him what I'm upset about. He now says "Get used to it!"

I want to go home...

[Deleted]

don't worry, you will get your time alone with him. she has to leave sometime, and if not, then take pyrotails advice and pray

[toadette101]

Yeah, I think I will. I'm trying to hint to Dad that I don't like it one bit.

[Haunter 360]

He said that to you?!



... That's freakin' unbelievable!
Dang, that's curse-worthy!

Why's he being so selfish?!
I mean, can't he cut it out?
For five minutes?!

Get used to it indeed - Hmph!
You're the one doing him a favour, by going there!
Heck, he should be WAY more thankful, after the way he's treated us!


You treat him how you want Toadette.
He don't deserve politeness!






... Or you can pray. Yeah, that'll probably turn out better.
Shouting at someone is probably just gonna make matters worse...

[Timewarp]

ok, i was already told by pyrotails about this but i didn't want to tell haunter or you because i thought you might say something like "it's nothing to do with you" or violently hit me with your hand or a weapn of equal strength. but all i know is that two of my uncles have spilt up and when they do it isn't pretty, but seeing as this has never directly happened to me i don't know what kind of advice i can give apart from saying that i hope that your alright and ok.
i'll be praying for you and haunter too. also if he's this angry when you say that to him it's obvious he feels bad about what he's doing and dosen't know what to do but i argree with haunter shouting is just going to make the situration ten times worse just pray that he does what right but her kids have no right to call him dad thats unfair and disgusting what are they gonna be like if your dad does deicide not to marry this women

[Deleted]

I used to blame myself that my parents broke up... My mum started seeing this guy (ten years on they're married) but that wasn't a problem because I knew him since I was 3...
But when I was 5 I saw my dad again, and he was living with his girlfriend and her two daughters. I can't remember if they call him dad, but I remember only seeing him for thirty minutes from the time we entered and the time we left...
But, I remember getting upset about those two girls and missing my dad, I mean the court already took him away from me once, why was this woman about to do it? And so I went into their bedroom... crying... only to see something I didn't like... my dad kissing and special hugging a stranger to me (Thankfully I didn't see anything). It stung... But I never told him, and in a way... not telling him made us drift even more... Now he's married someone else, had a son, (a half-brother I will probably never meet)....
But if your dad don't know now, he might not know you... What he is doing is affecting you, just because your father doesn't have the responsibilities as a husband, he has and always will have the rules and regulations as a father, and they state that blood is family and family come first, he should accept your feelings... That's the least you deserve after the trauma of your family falling apart...

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i agrree wiht lUnar, but the thing is he is still amrrioed Lunar. they not broken up yet.