Emotionally Torn

[doublemxx]

This is hard for me to explain... so please bear with me.


Recently, I learned we would be moving house. I thought this was great as I was fed up with my small room @_@

However, more recently, we were told we would be moving into my mom's boyfriend's house.

This is where my emotions pull in different directions.

Should I be happy that she is moving in with the man she loves? Or should I be upset that I won't be able to see my friends?

Should I worry about what happens if they split up?

The last few days I have been seriously going over the last one in my head.

What if they do split up? We'd be homeless... or worse... I'd have to live with my stepmom and dad. *shudder*

This is something that I can't go through alone... not by a long way....

I've already got some support from my friends on MSN... but....

*sigh*



I just don't know how to feel any more...

[Haunter 360]

Confusing matter...
But don't worry, alright?
Worry only makes things worse - It resolves nothing.

Advice-wise, FM5 is better than me, but...
We'll be here for you, okay?

[Deleted]

Worrying only makes the problem feel worse than it already is.

[Deleted]

it sure does. i hate it when i worry about nothing.

[Deleted]

i'm here for ya mxx. i'm not too good at advice, but i'm here if u need me

[toadette101]

I do that all the time pyrotails.

Sad to hear that, Double Mxx, but they're all right. Worrying never helps. Can't think of any advise for now, but I should have next time I go on msn...

[Deleted]

Hmmm, i have heard this before, my boyfriend had to move in with his mums boyfriend, and they split up, his mum had to find a house and now they live quite happy, if it is really bothering you, talk to your mum about it...

[Deleted]

I envy people like you because you get to go through such experiences of hardships. You can say "I've been there." Now, I'm not saying that I wish that I had, do or ever want to go through such things, but you have the chance to either grow from your trials or to let them tear you down. It's either better or worse for you. The best part is: it's your choice. To choose being optomistic and believing that you will benefit from the experience may not be an easy thing, but it is possible. It is also, most assuredly, worth the effort.

And like said, I can't relate to something like this. But I have heard about similiar hardships in the lives of others I know. Things may not work out the way we want it to, but in time, they were able to move on and be happy with the way things are.

I invite all who are lacking in knowledge, comfort or confidence to pray. And believe it or don't believe it, someone IS listening closely with such great desire to bless and comfort you. Have faith, in all things.