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Post by Timewarp on Mar 26, 2014 12:26:12 GMT -5
I just heard something I wasn't suppose to hear and you know when you suspect something about somebody but hearing someone else confirm it just makes it so much worst? Yeah that just happened and you know what makes it worst? There's nothing I can do about it.
I tell the people I know then it doesn't end well but at the same time I don't want to be anywhere near them for the next decade or so.
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Post by FlameMaster5 on Mar 26, 2014 12:50:35 GMT -5
Yeah?  Sounds like some serious stuff! You can always share what happened here with us if you want. I mean, I get it, that's always THE WORST when your suspicions just get confirmed.  |
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Post by Timewarp on Mar 28, 2014 12:34:11 GMT -5
Yeah? Sounds like some serious stuff! You can always share what happened here with us if you want. I mean, I get it, that's always THE WORST when your suspicions just get confirmed. I thought about it and you know what? After that post I guess I can't really not tell you. Basically my Nan (on my dad's side) over the past few months has really been getting on my nerves, I'm not sure if I mentioned on the site before but basically every now and then she asks my dad to pick her up from the hospital and various other things. One day she asked my dad to pick my cousin up from football practice BUT the thing is this was on one of his only days off in ages and he already had something he needed to do (I can't recall but I think he needed to go to the doctors or dentist). THIS was the first time my dad said no to her and what does she do? She calls up my brother and talks to him about how my dad is lazy and is being disloyal obviously trying to turn my brother against her which seeing as my brother is as loyal to my dad as I am had the opposite effect. Recently she came down with my uncle whom I hate (Long story NOT short, the guy is an asshole who generally thinks he can say and do whatever he wants and not suffer the consequences, he's had small spats with one of my other uncles and acts like a child at one point we had to leave our home in the middle of the night because my dad was afraid my uncle might just do something stupid and I swear I am not making this up that my dad must have been afraid my uncle was going to kill him) So you can understand why me and him are not on the best of terms. I didn't want to come down since I felt talking to my uncle might start something, anyway the next day my Nan apparently called my dad about how she thinks me, my brother and sister all hate her which is insane since most of the time all three of us stay in our rooms. Because of my disabilities I also find conversing with others hard, I just never know what to talk about so I avoid conversations out of fear of just now knowing what to say. Basically I treat everyone the same. I can talk all day with some people and not say a word to others yet my Nan is turning this into some personal vendetta against her oh and to add insult to injury my socially retarded sister had to say that she doesn't talk to my Nan because she hates her so now my dad is throwing a hissy fit and is refusing to talk to anyone. Now my Nan thinks I hate her over what accounts to nothing, my dad is throwing a hissy fit and worst of all his blaming my mum for turning my and my brother and sister against his side of the family because she tells us all the things they do. Now correct me if I'm wrong FM5 but normal people try to get people to like them by oh I don't know doing nice things and steering away from doing bad things. I mean how did my mum turn me against them? By telling me the truth? Because I get that story when I talk to them myself. |
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Post by CS Revolked on Mar 28, 2014 14:41:50 GMT -5
Oh, TW.
I'd bloody love to help you. I read through your entire thing... but.. I really don't know what to say.
I mean, is there anything I can say? I can't really think of any advice for you. I'm sorry, TW.
I guess all I can say is that I hope it all gets better somehow. :\
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Post by Timewarp on Mar 28, 2014 15:03:25 GMT -5
Oh, TW. I'd bloody love to help you. I read through your entire thing... but.. I really don't know what to say. I mean, is there anything I can say? I can't really think of any advice for you. I'm sorry, TW. I guess all I can say is that I hope it all gets better somehow. :\ It's cool. The thing is I know my Nan isn't doing any of this to be spiteful but it's hard to take it the wrong way sometimes. To be honest today she came down and I apologised and then she said she was sorry she went and bitched (she said bitched, I am using her own words here) about me and my brother and sister to my dad. The thing is though it's hard since what do you say to someone in this situation? Oh I don't hate you, I didn't come down to see you because I hate your son! Regardless of how I feel towards my uncle no parent wants to hear someone attack their children and the thing is I think it does get to my Nan, from what I've heard she knows people don't like my uncle and well. Have you ever heard a relative that just gets at you every time you try and help them? That's my uncle in a nutshell, he treats every act of kindness like you're trying to show him up. He's got diabetes and ignored his doctor's advice to the point where he had to have part of his leg removed and the idiot still forgets to take his medication. You just want to grab him and say "YOU ARE GOING TO DIE! If that happens your wife and children are going to be all on their own and every problem you have, their going to have to face those problems without you!" |
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Post by CS Revolked on Mar 28, 2014 15:10:21 GMT -5
Yeah, TW. I know. There's someone close to me whose neck I'd love to wring, because they are so stubborn. Much like with your uncle.
^^ No names, though. Not from me.
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Post by Timewarp on Mar 28, 2014 15:36:09 GMT -5
It's cool, I think we all know someone like that
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Post by CS Revolked on Mar 28, 2014 15:52:09 GMT -5
Yep. But, we can't control these things. I'm just looking forward to my next post on DM. I'm glad it's back  |
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Post by Timewarp on Mar 28, 2014 16:00:52 GMT -5
So am I, it really annoyed me when it stopped since there was a lot I wanted to do although to be fair there's a lot I want to change (in my own storylines) when it comes to writing the book/comic.
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Post by CS Revolked on Mar 28, 2014 16:05:30 GMT -5
Same.
I used to have dreams about up coming scenes. It was how I wrote. I'd imagine how it would look and translate it into words.
Although sometimes words wouldn't do the scenes justice. Things look epic in your head but seem so anticlimactic on the page.
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Post by Timewarp on Apr 2, 2014 7:29:35 GMT -5
Me too! Archer jokes aside I sometimes do that, I've had a few game ideas that have started out as basic dreams. Not sure if I have a good imagination or if it's the result of playing too many videogames.
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Post by FlameMaster5 on Apr 2, 2014 12:14:37 GMT -5
Oh, TW. I'd bloody love to help you. I read through your entire thing... but.. I really don't know what to say. I mean, is there anything I can say? I can't really think of any advice for you. I'm sorry, TW. I guess all I can say is that I hope it all gets better somehow. :\ It's cool. The thing is I know my Nan isn't doing any of this to be spiteful but it's hard to take it the wrong way sometimes. To be honest today she came down and I apologised and then she said she was sorry she went and bitched (she said bitched, I am using her own words here) about me and my brother and sister to my dad. The thing is though it's hard since what do you say to someone in this situation? Oh I don't hate you, I didn't come down to see you because I hate your son! Regardless of how I feel towards my uncle no parent wants to hear someone attack their children and the thing is I think it does get to my Nan, from what I've heard she knows people don't like my uncle and well. Have you ever heard a relative that just gets at you every time you try and help them? That's my uncle in a nutshell, he treats every act of kindness like you're trying to show him up. He's got diabetes and ignored his doctor's advice to the point where he had to have part of his leg removed and the idiot still forgets to take his medication. You just want to grab him and say "YOU ARE GOING TO DIE! If that happens your wife and children are going to be all on their own and every problem you have, their going to have to face those problems without you!" Mmm... Tough times. Your uncle really reminds me of my father - the whole asshole thing fits his profile, too. Seems everyone, somewhere, has their asshole family member they reeeeeeally rather just shape up or go away entirely. Not die necessarily, just... Disappear. You're doing everything you can do, Timewarp. Above is enough evidence to see that you are trying, and your family simply isn't. I feel bad for your sister being dragged into all this, too. That's not right. Just isn't.  On the topic switch... I am glad DM is back as well. :3 I had 2 long years with constant family battling, and that messed up any creativity at all in myself. Once everything was patched up, and I gave up a lot of my old bad habits, then I saw a glimpse of light one day through the depression that reminded me of how much I missed writing and art. I'm still looking for work, but in the meantime... I'm here! ^^ |
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Post by CS Revolked on Apr 7, 2014 5:20:06 GMT -5
Yeah.
Work and life bogged me down so much that I forgot what I truly loved.
I still wrote fanfiction from time to time, but the original stuff just left me.
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Post by Tymki on Apr 7, 2014 8:44:25 GMT -5
Jeez, Timmy, all that family stuff sounded pretty harsh. Is it okay now, and more importantly are you okay now?
And I'm glad Danse Macabre's back too. Got stuffs planned with Miho and Dave so it should be good. :3
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Post by CS Revolked on Apr 7, 2014 17:34:43 GMT -5
^^ And in other news I'm coming down with a cold and I have two weeks (including this week btw) to do two assignments and make a poster. Whoopdee-freakin-doo!
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